How many times have we got confused about
love or no-love? How many times have we got confused by the confusing signals
being sent across by the other person? Isn't it quite strange that we take so
much time to figure out a simple relationship! ( Or is it actually a pretty
complicated relationship? ). So that's pretty strange, isn't it? That we may be
in love, but may not be knowing that we are. And we may NOT be in love but may
be thinking that we actually are!! :)
They say, "Don't fall in Love. Rise in Love!". So that's where I
start wondering..... Does 'Love' brings prosperity and happiness, or does it
spell doom for the person? Standard philosophical response would be of course
that something as pure and pious as 'Love', can do no harm. But then do we not
notice numerous of lives getting spoiled by this same "Love"? Doesn't
it waste hell lot of time of those love-struck couples? Or is it like that
every relationship demands time? And of course, in many cases we even notice
people committing suicides!! So is it 'Love' which is playing devil here, or is
it that people themselves are devilish!! Strange ways...... :)
Not having a wild side can be quite a bit of disadvantage for guys. There are
umpteen articles lying around which concludes that girls find themselves
attracted to bad guys. And this is not a matter of articles alone, this could
be easily experienced by us. Haven't we noticed the most beautiful girls of our
class taken away by the most notorious, mischievous boy? And it has logic
too.
So point is, the nice guys-those with nothing wild and unconventional to
show off- are put off on back foot. They are most of the times, on a
disadvantageous ground. Even though they might have much better qualities than
the other set of guys, they always fail to get a nice girl. Why? Because the
nice girls are always lured to the bad boys!! That's really strange, isn't it?
But then, that's the way things mostly happen around :)
Is love all the same in every cases, or is it different in different type of
relationships? It is always so puzzling. The love of a mother for her child,
the love of two friends, the love of love-struck couples.... are they all the
same, or they are completely different? The obvious response seems to be that
they are distinctly different, but wait! Some people also opin that love has
the same basic threads everywhere. After all, don't you expect a clear
commonality between all of them? Care, affection, empathy..... the most
basic but important ingredients of Love, don't they bring a clear, distinctive,
quite an intrinsic kind of similarity?? So much that we can say that "Its
all the same in all cases"? Confusing, isn't it? :)
P.S.- If you liked this post, then you will like these two even more :) -->>this one and this one
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